Be positive - key to success - Where do I go from here??

From my past experience, when you are positive minded, not only to yourself but also to others, you will find that you are actually enjoying your life and determine to do better.

Why Think Positively?

All of our feelings, beliefs and knowledge are based on our internal thoughts, both conscious and subconscious. We are in control, whether we know it or not.
Aim high and do your best
We can be positive or negative, enthusiastic or dull, active or passive.

The biggest difference between people is their attitudes. For some, learning is enjoyable and exciting. For others, learning is a drudgery. For many, learning is just okay, something required on the road to a job.

What Should We Be Saying?

One approach is called the three C's: Commitment, Control and Challenge.

Commitment
Make a positive commitment to yourself, to learning, work, family, friends, nature, and other worthwhile causes. Praise yourself and others. Dream of success. Be enthusiastic.

Control
Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do. Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself.

Challenge
Be courageous. Change and improve each day. Do your best and don't look back. See learning and change as opportunities. Try new things. Consider several options. Meet new people. Ask lots of questions. Keep track of your mental and physical health. Be optimistic.

Studies show that people with these characteristics are winners in good times and survivors in hard times.

Research shows that,
"... people who begin consciously to modify their inner conversations and assumptions report an almost immediate improvement in their performance. Their energy increases and things seem to go better ..."

Commitment, control and challenge help build self-esteem and promote positive thinking. Here are some other suggestions.

I guess it's true being positive is the key to success.

When Lim Goh Tong,founder of Genting,had a problem of getting land of Genting from Selangor govt, at that time he already got the land from Pahang govt,the govt of Selangor were only willing to give it to Lim Goh Tong by 99 years lease.So,Lim Goh Tong wanted to meet the Selangor minister that time although he knew his chance was very low and slim, his senior officer also advised him it will be a waste to meet the minister but Lim Goh Tong only said "Dont worry,just follow me to the meeting".

As expected the minister didnt want to grant his wish but he explained to the minister that genting will need 50-60 years to be fully developed and 20-30 years to gain profit and by the time 99 years finished, all the hardwork will be given back to govt and if he could not get the selangor land,he had to build genting on pahang side only which will give more benefit to pahang which currently have cameroon and fraser hill and would leave selangor behind in the tourism industry. So, the minister was convinced and awarded the freehold to Lim Goh Tong.

The key here is still the same, he was positive in his challenging task and he achieved it with his positive mind and attitude.

so what we should do here is be positive not only to yourself but also to your friends, if they want to do something, encourage them instead of bringing down their moral:-S. You will achieve your dream and so do your friend.The world is a better place now.

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